The Danger of Being Over Ambitious

Posted on 29. Nov, 2011 by in Entrepreneurship, Health & Wellness, Personal Development, Personal Growth

 

There’s a lot to be said about putting the rubber where it meets the road and  taking serious action; Certainly this is how things  get done.

But are there points at which we need to let off on the throttle,   or would that run the risk of losing vital momentum? Ambition is an essential element of progress & productivity as it is the driving force to our endeavors, but can we be over ambitious?

Indeed momentum is very vital, but think about what it takes to guide that momentum.

 

Balance

What good is it to gain momentum if we’re just going to crash? If we don’t have balance, how productive can our momentum be? If we constantly keep it in full throttle, then we lose our ability to assess important details as we are stuck in a singular mode and lose balance.

The result of lost balance can be disastrous, which is why momentum must usually  submit to balance.  Maintaining balance requires some  healthy habits such as:

  • Alternating your tasks to break the monotony
  • Maintaining your perspective and positive attitude
  • Taking small breaks throughout the day
  • Taking time off to have fun and enjoy life
  • Getting enough sleep and eating a healthy diet
  • Keeping a clean and pleasant working environment

 

Focus

Alongside of balance should be the navigating act of focus. This is so important, yet not always so  easy as many of us are ADD.  Equally important is discerning the two modes of focus:

There is a step-by-step type of focus  -and-   there is an over-all focus.  In other words, there is the kind of focus which attends to the means’ to the end;    then there is the kind of focus that attends to end ‘ of the means–  which is the ultimate objective.

Usually, the ‘means to the end ‘ are a series of goals which get us to our ultimate goal.  So there is the focus of the chief goal– balanced  with the focus of the goals that get us there.

Having said that, there are times when some of us may choose to be laser-focused on a singular goal in order to produce extraordinary results. Just like a student in med-school, or an Olympic athlete in training, or an elite-special-forces soldier preparing for a special-ops mission,   there are sacrifices made which do not allow a balanced lifestyle. Sometimes, being laser-focused  is what it takes to get our business off the ground, or to bring it to the next level.

As an advocate for a healthy and well-balanced lifestyle with purpose,  I would not recommend staying laser-focused for more than a season. The length of the season may vary according to a multitude of variables;  Some may choose to do this for a month or two while others may go for six months to a year. Still others may go for 2-5 years or so to achieve what they mean to accomplish

Perspective

There is absolutely no way we can manage a well-balanced perspective if we constantly have the peddle-to-the-metal. Perspective is essential to any type of focusing we do, as well as a vital component of balance. Often we find ourselves lost in the middle of our grinding away.

Again, this is where we need to ease-up on the throttle so we can see where we are at, where we have been and where we are going. And, of course, the occasional pit-stop is something that must be done. Then we can take the next step and gain  perspective on the context of the the world around us and what our purpose is.

Perspective is what clarifies our purpose and passion, which is the whole reason behind our pursuits and the ‘why’ that drives our endeavors.

Checks and Balances

There are several different ways to keep our over ambitious tendencies in check, but the basic way of tempering our drive with balance, focus and perspective– is by staying tuned-in with the well-being of our physical, mental, emotional and spiritual state:

  • Be in the habit of constantly monitoring your inner senses
  • If your soul seems anguished, then figure out what adjustments need to be made to find that sweet spot
  • Determine what are reasonable sacrifices and what are not;  and count the costs
  • Prioritize– think through what things are the most important in both personal and business and arrange in proper order
  • Have a daily plan, weekly plan, monthly, yearly and long-term plan for both business and personal life
  • And make sure that you actually have a life beyond business- that’s what keeps us alive and inspired!

Everything has a balance and needs to be guided in a way that is productive and meaningful. Our ambitious drive is a fundamental element for a progressive life, but should  be aligned with balance, focus and perspective- if we wish to have a productive drive that doesn’t consume everything in life that really matters.

This message is certainly not rocket-science, but is still challenging for anyone like myself who is highly driven and sometimes over-ambitious,  and needs a reminder from time to time.  Life is a delicate thing, so lets remember to treat it right.

 

What shall it profit a man if he gains the entire world, yet loses his soul?       -Jesus

-Thanks for reading and remember to keep life meaningful!

 

 

 

The Danger of Being Over Ambitious

 

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2 Responses to “The Danger of Being Over Ambitious”

  1. Israeili Rothman

    17. Dec, 2011

    Very well put.  Every time you open your mouth, you are selling, creating something: the
    difference is that a professional, occasionally, when it really
    counts, can do it on purpose.

    A fully enlightened human, first evaluates whether it is worth it:
    If you want to meet the real Satan in person, forget your scapegoat: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scapegoating – instead, look in the mirror, accept responsibility, forgive yourself, for you are human too, and change.

    ”When Siddhartha came to meet with the wealthy merchant, the merchant said:

    ”You are a Samma, (see http://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Special:Search&search=samma+tribe+india&redirs=1&ns0=1) you have nothing, what can you possibly offer me?”

    Siddhartha pondered this for a moment, then said:

    ”I can think. I can fast. I can wait.”

    In so many words, the wealthy merchant said ’You are hired”

    when Siddhartha had acquired riches and concubines beyond belief, still
    he was empty, and not enlightened, so he decided to through himself in
    the river, since life had no value anyway.

    As he was about to do so, he remembered a sacred word, and fell asleep on the River bank.

    He was awakened by his friend who taken him across the river in the first place.

    ”Siddhartha! Tell me how you fared!”

    Siddhartha told him of his journeys and is conclusions, then prepared
    again to through himself in the river. His friend stopped him, saying:

    ”Since you are going to kill yourself, and have nothing to loose anyway;
    why not help me for a while first – I could use a hand as commerce
    crossing the rive has increased…later n the story, Siddhartha looks into
    the river boat owners eyes, and sees enlightenment – the River-man has
    found God in the river. Siddhartha is finally enlightened: he realizes
    that was with him all along the journey, not just in the river, but in
    everyone and everything that happened to bring him to this realization:
    he just needed to stop seeking for long enough to realize it.

    – my take on the Herman Hesse Classic, Siddhartha.

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